No, that's not some weird analogy to food. Especially grains, I mean how dumb would I have to be to push that on people? And alienate the ever-growing gluten-free population? That'd just be silly. What I mean is that every experience in a relationship, every single second is building your relationship to what it will be. Each second (or hundredth of a second, or hundredth of a hundredth, or . . . ow, too much math) is making building the mountain that is your relationship. Whether that's a romantic relationship, a strong friendship, or an extremely disappointing relationship with a Washington football team.
These mountains are built grain by grain, not boulder by boulder. You can't just make something, or make up for something, in one shot. Yes, there are those milestone moments, but you built towards those. If you try to rush it, then it will be focused strictly on the now as opposed to how sustainable the progress would be. Basically, the harder you push it, the more you're doing it wrong.
These mountains are built grain by grain, not boulder by boulder. You can't just make something, or make up for something, in one shot. Yes, there are those milestone moments, but you built towards those. If you try to rush it, then it will be focused strictly on the now as opposed to how sustainable the progress would be. Basically, the harder you push it, the more you're doing it wrong.
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